right now I am on the verge of throwing the inners of my stomach in the toilet affer a crazy night of dancing and drinking at the hayloft in mt clemens, but here is the thing.

I took a girl that I worked with theere and another friend who I also work with which is also her friend and I liked one of these girls as more than a friend, I mean I would have liked to have had sexual relations with her, maybe not bf gf but I thought I had a chance at the beginning of the night. so we go to the club after work at about 11 o clock at night we arrive and I danced with her and her friend and I was drinking and they were not because they are not 21 but I danced with both of them. We danced until the end of night and then I see her dancing with another guy and I am sitting on the sideline of the dance floor just pissed and then she starts making out with the guy and he starts feeling her tits and she just lets him. the thing that really fucked up my world was that I always thought she was one big dick tease and nothing more and then all of a sudden I see her on the dance floor kissing a guy that she doesn;t even know and it hits me, I lost, lost the game and it fucking boggles my mind. I know there is a post here when you are drunk thread but I felt this deserved its own thread becasue I am just so falbergausted at what this girl did. I have been completely wrong about girls they are all scantless bitches. I guess it just hit that I must not be good enough either A looking or B career wise to get this girl. Men is a sense are like a resume in thereself for girls. I guess you have to build your resume whether it be working out or getting a better paying job but that is all girls care about either how good looking you are or how much money you bring home. I used to value them as people but now I am not even sure. what are they up to, never what is seems?????????

Hopefully I can figure this all out, maybe I just need to go strictly on personality and screw everything else, i never wanted to settle for a not as hot girl but fuck it, maybe they are the good bet. I just dont think i c an treeat girls as humans anymore becasue they are attention whores, bottom line. If i take a girl to the club that I like and she knows it and she is making out with another guy at the end of the night i think that i have the right to be pissed/confused. the last girl i dated just got married and I went out with her for 6 months and then she gets back together with her ex fiance and dgot married last week and moved to england with him, yeah thats right he is an englishmen.

I keep investing my heart into girls and getting burned, I dont even know anymore, i think i am done I am going to go puke sianora

first off man, buck up. just because a chick or two isnt into you doesnt mean its the end of the booty world. gotta look at a night like tonight as one of those preference things. i had a point a couple years ago where i was thinkin fuck it and now ive been with an intelligent, booty-hot chick for two years. sure a lot of chicks are shitty, just as many guys are too. keep at it, dont spend much money on em til the second date (weeds out the golddiggers), and it will eventually be all good. now sleep that buzz off and get back to us after the weekend :thumbsup:

1st throw that life-resume idea out the fucking window. You think that dude that played titty tennis with her dropped a cover letter and references on her first?

2nd listen to UxKa, you're just sad because you're drunk w/ an empty bed after starting out with vaginas to your left and right.

3rd, its ALWAYS easier to get to second on a girl at a club if she doesn't know you at all (if she knows you that kinda shit carries more baggage for her the next day, if you're a stranger you're gone by lunch time tomorrow at the latest). The girl not knowing shit about you at a club is 2nd in power only to making a tipsy girl laugh.

Lastly, you did lose last night. You lost a couple times. You lost when you let her friend tag along. You lost when you didn't buy her (and her friend since you let her tag along) a drink while you drained that shit all night. You also lost when you danced with both of them. The drink thing is double layered since you missed out on a chance to loosen her up and you wiffed on a chance to look good in her eyes.

You gotta be bolder my friend. Let your intentions be known. Don't try sticking your cock in her ear but from what you described it sounds like you played yourself into the role of one of the girls. After all, you went with her and a friend to a club, you danced in a circle together, and you didn't buy her anything (you don't have to buy her anything but its just another way you look like an ordinary friend). Oh and next time, don't sit and sulk over a loss. At a club, there are all kinds of consolation prizes standing around.

Sluts. Ya win some, ya lose some. Next.

Been there, done that, and I feel for you gusman.
Good luck.

that sucks, dude. good advice from uxka and fool......hang out w/ your boys during the world series weekend and recharge.

PNF/Linh all over again, but with an R rating

Shit happens.

Get back on your feet.

sounds like you guys have all been in a similar situations. I am starting to come to grips with what happened last night.

Damn.....sluts.

sounds like you guys have all been in a similar situations. I am starting to come to grips with what happened last night.
Please. Don't masturbate.

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If you're not talking about masturbation nevermind.

good advice. masturbation is not the answer.

also, imo, girls that you see every day (coworkers, girls from school, etc) are better to stay away from. get to their friends. girls always have more friends. also, you go to a club with a girl as a friend, its like you have a seal of approval to all the other girls.

Yeah, been there, move on. If you really like this girl, maybe keep trying. But it sounds to me like you need to move on.

Dunno how old you are gusman, but you're figuring out an important lesson.

Btw, if you respect them as people, you shouldn't be turned off to dating on personality. There is nothing hotter than someone who is into you. You already know how it feels when they are not into you...

I get to work today and the story making its way around the workplace is making it sound like she was dancing with this other guy all night who she made out with. It was the last two songs of the night that she hooked up with this guy, but she is making it sound like I was sitting, not dancing all night just being jealous of her dancing with the other guy. These women, they never stop. It's funny how people like to talk about drama and make the situation into more than it is. I told a couple co workers about good news in my life last week and no one that I did not tell about this good news said one thing to me, but then with this people that I dont even talk to know about it. Funny how that goes.

Workplace romance is a bitch. I forgot to mention before, that its best avoided. To sum it up real quick... Ive dated one girl I worked with. After less than two weeks I apparantly got her pregnant, gave her aids, had a few other children with other girls, and beat her. For the record Ive never had any STD, no kids or pregnancies, and never hit a girl (cept from the back, byaah:cool:). As someone previously mentioned, bring the work chick (or friend chick) into the bar/club because it will help with picking up other chicks, but dont even try to get with the work chick.

romance? there was no romance. she's a young freaky bitch and you didnt catch on enough to NOT bring your friend along. most women are full of shyt. Doesn't mean you should be mad at them or confused about their intentions. hers are obvious. she's a freak and she'd possibly fuck both of ya if you wanted. as long as your friend isnt dumb enough to lock her up in a relationship its all good.

the workplace isnt a good place to hook up anyways IMO. my homeboy does it all the time and has been fired on several ocasions because of something directly or indirectly related to that. just doesn't make things great unless the chick is grown enough to not mix work and sex/love. which you never find out until an akward scenario comes up.
Before elektra comes out of nowhere to smash me, most of us men are full of shit too.

I miss Elektra's avatars.

Workplace romance is a bitch. I forgot to mention before, that its best avoided. To sum it up real quick... Ive dated one girl I worked with. After less than two weeks I apparantly got her pregnant, gave her aids, had a few other children with other girls, and beat her. For the record Ive never had any STD, no kids or pregnancies, and never hit a girl (cept from the back, byaah:cool:). As someone previously mentioned, bring the work chick (or friend chick) into the bar/club because it will help with picking up other chicks, but dont even try to get with the work chick.

Damn. Her name wasn't Sam or Sarah and lived in Pontiac, was it?

lol no. Sorry youve had a similar experience.

lol no. Sorry youve had a similar experience.

No, I have not. However, my wife and I did hang out with this one broad because she said she was in town from Florida and wanted to go to this party. She posted this on this music forum a bunch of us post on. So, me and my wife invited her along because she seemed cool.

She told us she had a kid and lived in Florida and asked us if we knew this dude on the board we post on. She told us that he IM'd her and wanted to hang and what not.

Well, to make a long story very short. She lied to us about her name, the fact that she had a kid, and the fact that she lived in Florida. She was essentially stalking that guy that she asked us about and lied to him about having his kid, then having an abortion, and all kinds of other crazy things.

It was very weird.

internet=weirdos.

Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks.

Live by that one.

bangpow, that sounds like her. Weirdness.

Does she have brown hair?